The actuation of the touchpads shouldn't be loud...there is a fluid dampener inside the mechanism that should keep the touchpad pretty quiet as it is pressed and as it comes back out. If you need help checking to see if those are still in place, let me know. Of course, "loud" is relative...what might sound loud in a quiet hospital ward barely makes a whisper in a school. Full disclosure: I work for Von Duprin.

If the doors are fire-rated, the panic hardware can't be dogged mechanically. I'm guessing they are fire-rated because otherwise you would have the dogging mechanism in place. So assuming they are fire-rated, you have a couple of options - 1) hold the doors open with magnetic holders or electronic closer/holders - the doors would have to close on fire alarm, or 2) if you don't want to hold the doors open, you can hold the latches retracted, but it would have to be done electronically so the latches would automatically project and latch the door upon fire alarm. Von Duprin has an electric latch retraction retrofit kit that can be added in the field (as long as the panics are not really old), but this would also require a power transfer, power supply, and fire alarm connection so it would be more expensive than holding the doors open.
If you need help, I can refer you to the local office. Happy Thanksgiving!