Thanks all for the responses, and the kind words. Much appreciated!
I learned long ago - perhaps week one as in inspector - that if I'm not willing to admit I'm wrong when I am - that I was going to have a long, difficult, and contentious career. Life is too precious and short for that.
A couple of thoughts on my rational for this call, for purposes of further discussion, not justification
1 - The commentary got me headed in this direction. Yeah, I know, not enforceable, but useful for education. From R802.6 - "The requiremens for roof rafters and ceiling joists bearing on wood, metal, and masonry are similiar to the requirements for floor joists. See the commentary for Section R502.6 relative to the bearing requirements for wood metal and masonry."
2 - On this particular roof, the rafters are at a fairly acute angle coming into the valley rafter, and therefore the cheek cut has the rafter tail very thin. The toenails go through very little meat of the lumber. How much wood does the nail need to penetrate to really carry the load?
Thanks again, and hope you all have a great week!
Darren